daughtxr-of-lilith: A kind reminder for doms<3 It’s okay if you’re not in the mood to play. It’s okay if you don’t want to be touched, or if you feel too tired to lead. It’s okay if you need a break, or if you experience dom drop and don’t feel like yourself. Your needs matter, too. You don’t have to perform an endless role of being in control. You’re allowed to be human, to step back, to say “Not today. ” And it’s okay to lean on your partner and let them take care of you, in whatever way you need that. Your worth as a Dom isn’t measured by how much you can give without rest. It’s measured by how honestly you show up, for yourself and for them. Take care of yourself. You deserve the same compassion you offer others 🖤